Good morning team. 

I am recently divorced from my husband for about a year. I was severely hurt during the process of my marriage. I took a year off from dating to do a lot of soul searching and to come to grips with the fact that my failed marriage was my fault. Thanks to you Steve. The advice you've been giving to your listeners made me realize it was my fault. Now to the question. I've been dating a guy for about three months right out the gate. We established ground rules of the relationship. He said that he dates other women and wanted to be totally honest with me about that. I told him that I didn't have any expectations and that I'm not seeking or looking for a relationship. OK I know you're waiting on the problem since the ground rules were set up front. What's the problem. 

Here's the problem. Now he wants more. 

He wants to cut out all the women in his life to see only me and he wants me to do the same. I am totally scared to commit myself to another man and to get hurt in the end. Just to give you a little background on the surface. He's perfect. Treats me with the utmost respect and care. No I have not broken off the cookie because I didn't want to confuse matters considering the ground rules. Please help me. How do you know when it's the right time to try love again.